Ada Calhoun

Wedding Toasts I’ll Never Give

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My next book, Wedding Toasts I’ll Never Give, a collection of essays about marriage, based on a popular story I wrote for the New York Times Modern Love column, is due out on May 16, 2017.

The Modern Love piece was called “The Wedding Toast I’ll Never Give.”

I want to say that one day you and your husband will fight about missed flights, and you’ll find yourself wistful for the days when you had to pay for only your own mistakes. I want to say that at various points in your marriage, may it last forever, you will look at this person and feel only rage. You will gaze at this man you once adored and think, “It sure would be nice to have this whole place to myself.” Read the whole thing here.

And here is the book description:

Poignant and witty essays on the beautiful complexity of marriage.

Inspired by her wildly popular New York Times essay “The Wedding Toast I’ll Never Give,” Ada Calhoun provides a funny (but not flip), smart (but not smug) take on the institution of marriage. Weaving intimate moments from her own married life with frank insight from experts, clergy, and friends, she upends expectations of total marital bliss to present a realistic―but ultimately optimistic―portrait of what marriage is really like. There will be fights, there will be existential angst, there may even be affairs; sometimes you’ll look at the person you love and feel nothing but rage. Despite it all, Calhoun contends, staying married is easy: just don’t get divorced. Wedding Toasts I’ll Never Give offers bracing straight talk to the newly married and honors those who have weathered the storm. This exploration of modern marriage is at once wise and entertaining, a work of unexpected candor and literary grace.

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